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हारने के दर को खुद पर हाबी न होने दे !!!!

~Being Myself~
~Being Myself~
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Just about everyone has a fear of failure to one degree or another. We are a society in which failure is one of the worst things imaginable. We attach so much of our self-worth to success, so failing at something—anything—makes us feel like we have no value. Many of us feel that when we fail, other people feel sorry for us, and there’s nothing worse than pity. We may tell ourselves that failure brings us one step closer to success or that we are learning from our mistakes, but those pithy words of wisdom don’t erase the stigma of failure.

Every situation we find ourselves in, both good and bad, can be a learning experience, but unless we truly feel that in our hearts, it doesn’t matter what we tell ourselves about failure.

Some of us fear failure because we have unrealistic expectations for our lives. We have a great need to feel that we are better than others; we certainly need to feel better about ourselves anyway. A fear of failure undermines that good feeling, that need to be better than anyone else. And it’s also unrealistic. No matter how well you do something, there is always someone else who can do it better. The chances of us being the very best in the world at something are very, very slim. And if you feel that you HAVE to be the best, you’re just setting yourself up for failure.

We must find a way to break the destructive cycle that fear of failure causes. We have to realize that failure is a natural part of life, and the only way to completely avoid failure is to not try, and that’s no way to live. Once we come to accept failure as just a step in the process, we will be able to be rid of that paralyzing fear.

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